theres a thought

chemicals; love
Someone i used to be really close with once told me, he doesnt really believe in love because its chemicals in your brain trying to get you tp find a mate to keep the human race alive. At first i argued that this couldnt possibly be true because people say they find love and theyre hooked on that one person their whole life, it doesnt happen to everyone but some are lucky enough. And he continued to say things like, its compatibility and being able to put up with people, and chemicals flowing in your brain. This option pops into my brain often.

Personal experiance of love
When i compare that to what i feel ive had, i think it cant be true, like when you look at someone and your stomach goes, or liek when the other person only likes youa s a friend, and you agree, no matter how much it hurts, just so you can keep seeing there face, and everyday it gets easier to just see them that way, that proves i know i can move on, But then you get those that appear stuck in your mind all the time, and you hate them will all your brain, but love them with all your heart, that cant be chemicals can it? But then ide have to believe in things liek soul mates, but soul mates represent both people adoring eachother, so why is it people can want but not need.


The mind; love
Sometimes you can convince you that everything is possible, but ive heard someone say before 'you cannot force someone to love someone else' and thats very true, but is love desire? lust? adoration? how can someone define love, and why doesnt my mind knwo what is? why are films showing me 'love' why hasnt the generations told people of how love can hurt and mend.


Why do i care so much?

Friends; love
Those are the people who you can trust with your entire life, and you expect the same from them, people have told me you cant be friends with the opposite, the other sex always wants something more from you. Well i'de like to say that i believe that, but i do see that persons point of view, like you can be really good friends with someone you think is ugly because you just couldnt do it to yourself, people say looks dont matter, even scientists have proved that wrong. Its a good thing to know that sub-consciensly, all your friends think youre a bit attractive.

Music; Love
How can music understand what love is, and comfort you when you feel there is no love? A blog cant answer these questions, but maybe one day the universe will for me.